Story: Leigh
Illustrations: Eyelaugh
Having Christmas with my family is like having Christmas with the fey. We’re pleasant, ordinary (okay, that might be stretching it a bit) people, but when Christmas time comes around, we turn into capricious, willful creatures. While some people might have sweet, charmed Christmases where everyone will dress up, pleasantly take turns opening presents, or have a calm dinner, my family is another story. We all have minds of our own, which creates for an interesting Christmas dynamic.
Like most kiddos, my siblings will plan what they want for Christmas before Thanksgiving is over. Unlike most kiddos, they carefully plan what they are going to get for others, sometimes months in advance. While we all might know what we’re getting each other, none of us know what our parents will get us! It’s often not anything on the list, because we have totally unrealistic lists. But hey, it never hurts to ask for a laptop when you’re 15 or a cell phone when you’re 11….you never know when they’ll cave!
In an attempt to dissuade the peekers, presents are often wrapped deceptively. When a kiddo decides to join in the wrapping fun, boxes within boxes are used to excess and other noise-making objects are added to throw off guessers. This tradition started because one year I was forbidden from touching the presents ahead of time to guess. Being a persistent individual, I got around this rule by asking a friend to feel the presents and describe them to me. I was happy to know that I got the Two Towers Extended Edition, among other fun presents.
Any present that is in a gift bag is wrapped before it is placed there. I don’t think I need to explain why at this point…
One thing we all know is coming on Christmas day…socks. This is not because our feet grow bigger each year. It’s because me and all three of my siblings have chronic sock-stealing issues. I’m wearing a pair of my mother’s socks right now, actually. So every year, they buy us socks. I’m not sure that this is really fair to them. No matter how many pairs of socks we seem to get, we always need to “borrow” a pair from them, here and there.
I’m sure my parents wouldn’t mind a heartwarming Christmas once in awhile, but one day, I’m sure they’ll realize how much more fun these Christmases are.
ladywithatruck said:
Good post! Lol I got a few good laughs out of it and it brought back memories.
I’ve never wanted to know what I am getting, I want to be surprised which irritates my son to no end. I told him if he had to tell what he got me to say he got a tea pot. So that has always been our little code word.
For a couple of years I had a real problem with him sneaking to look at the presents. One day I came home from work when he was about 12 and all the presents under the tree were horribly disfigured. Paper was ripped, ribbon stretched, bows lopsided. I figured I knew what had been going on but I acted shocked and said, “OMG what happened to the presents under the tree??” My son with the most innocent look on his face said,”The cats did it”
I said, “the cats were looking in the gifts under the tree?”
“Yeah!” He says and then adds, “well they weren’t looking at the gifts, they were playing and were in the presents and ripped every thing apart and Zak and I (zak his buddy is standing there looking very guilty in an innocent kinda way and is nodding his head in agreement any time I look his way) tried to wrap them up again. Without looking at the present of course!” His eyes are exact wide now!! And Zak’s head is bobbing like a QP doll.
I said, “Well I’ll just have to return everything and get you different gifts in case you did see anything”
I see Zac’s eyes shift to Kris. I knew there were some things there he definitely would not want returned.
I didn’t bother, I thought I’d teach him a lesson. He was a disappointed boy on Christmas morning though when he knew everything he was getting. I don’t think he snooped ever again.
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Antigone's Clamor said:
That’s really funny! I guess they deserved that little scare after covering up their little indiscretion. 🙂
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eyeLaugh said:
loved working on this with you!
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Antigone's Clamor said:
I did, too! My mom shared it on her facebook as the “dark side” of our Christmas traditions. 😉
Btw, I edited it a little bit, b/c some people thought I did the illustrations…it’s up at the top now. 🙂
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life is a bowl of kibble said:
love this and the cartooning is wonderful too.
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Antigone's Clamor said:
Thanks!! We had a great time working on this post!
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theduffboy said:
Reblogged this on Duffboy and commented:
Because Christmas with the family can be part National Lampoon’s, part Christmas Story, I share with you Antigone’s view.
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Antigone's Clamor said:
Thank you for reblogging!!
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Anonymous said:
this is too super cute!
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Antigone's Clamor said:
Thank you!
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Caddo Veil said:
This is hilarious!!
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Antigone's Clamor said:
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for stopping by. 🙂
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Antigone's Clamor said:
Thanks!! It’s all true, too. 😛
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Kevin J.J. Murray said:
I love the pictures of people getting their presents 🙂 I can definitely see myself in a lot of the quirks you describe your family as having (shaking presents to hear what they sound like… ahem…). Great post!
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Antigone's Clamor said:
Thanks, Kevin! Eyelaugh really captured the essence of our Christmas. It was quite funny how well they were able to do that! Half the fun of Christmas is the anticipation, anyway. 🙂
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becomingcliche said:
My husband is the psychic around here. I can’t let him see, touch, smell, or think about presents because he will guess. He guessed a telescope the first year we were married, and it’s been downhill ever since.
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L. Darwin said:
So funny, Leigh. I thought I was the only one who had Christmas codes. They’re different every year, and my kids always think they’re going to crack them.
There are certain unmistable gifts (Legos, for example), but because I still have several boys that ask for Legos each Christmas, they can’t tell *whose* Legos they are when wrapped.
I have something written on the botton of each present (usually random letters and numbers) and only I know what they mean. I do, however, usually get the right gifts to the right kids.
I also identify with wrapping the gift prior to putting it into the gift bag. So funny.
And sock stealing is huge around here, but only for the guys’ dress socks. (Being the only girl in the house, no one ever wants my fuzzy slipper socks.) But on Sunday mornings and dressy occasions, the fangs start to come out as the fellas accuse one another of sock-stealing. As fast as I buy a new bundle of them at Costco, they disappear into the Black Hole of Laundry. The few mismatched socks that can be found become fair game for anyone to claim, and something akin to WW3 breaks out at our house frequently on Sunday mornings as everyone scrambles for a matching pair.
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Antigone's Clamor said:
How funny that you have a similar experience to us! This year, they were pretty good about the code, because my dad had it all on his iphone. They did mess up with the categories, but it all got sorted out. 🙂 Thanks for reading!!
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Antigone's Clamor said:
Yikes! My dad has those psychic abilities, too. We consider it a success when we can confuse him about his present. 🙂
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Jeff said:
Great story! It brightened my day. I also loved the illustrations. My favorite being the one with the little girl holding up the power tools, saying “YAY!!”
I wish you a Merry Christmas and joy and peace for the new year.
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Antigone's Clamor said:
Thanks, Jeff!! Yes, that describes my little sister to a “T”. 🙂 I hope that you had a good Christmas as well! Happy new year!
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timotheous128 said:
Hahaha! I loved this, Lara! Thanks for sharing! ^_^
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Antigone's Clamor said:
Glad you liked it, Timothy!! 😛
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Jon said:
Great story and your illustrator did a great job.
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Antigone's Clamor said:
Thanks, Jon!! It was a lot of fun, and I really enjoyed working with them.
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pattisj said:
Fun post, loved the graphics to go along with it. I wasn’t much of a snooper, preferred being surprised. I think I did peek one year (my cousin was the master of it) and was a bit disappointed because there were no surprises.
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Antigone's Clamor said:
Thank you, Patti! Ah, I don’t understand you people who like to be surprised. How do you know what expression to put on when you get your presents? 😉
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